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If he got behind with his chores, his mother forced him to swallow spoonfuls of ammonia or locked him in the bathroom to inhale the rasping fumes from a bucket of ammonia and bleach. He was regularly required to lie in baths of cold water.

On one occasion, she pressed his face into a dirty nappy and hissed at him to 'Eat it! On another again, she stabbed him with a kitchen knife and left him to clean up the suppurating pus with dirty rags. If this is unpleasant over two paragraphs, imagine it carefully detailed over pages, and revisited in two follow-up volumes. Even though the book had been on the New York Times bestseller list for three years garishly packaged for a religiously inclined middle-American market by the same people who produce the gruesomely smug Chicken Soup For The Soul series , the consensus among British publishers was that it wouldn't work here.

There may also have been some literary snobbery. Pelzer rarely uses one word where five will do. When trying to escape his mother, rather than crawl, he 'literally crawled on my hands and knees'.

But snootiness about the writing is beside the point, because actually, the books bowl along, in their horrific way, and my guess is that Pelzer - and more particularly Marsha, who began as his editor, but is now his 'wife and executive director' - know exactly what they are doing. They are, for example, extremely adept at building tension. When little Dave has been begging for food, he walks home in dread that his mother will have found him out.

Above me the skies were blue and I could feel the sun's rays warm on my back. As I approached Mother's house, I looked up towards the sun, wondering if I would ever see it again Nothing extraneous is allowed to get in the way of the steady march of the violence.

It's difficult to work out exactly where Dave comes in the family of five boys I think he is the second child. We know nothing about what his house was like or his parents' backgrounds.

His father remains shadowy - heroic to Dave, but presumably deeply culpable - and it's not at all clear how his brothers reacted to his torture.

The writing focuses tightly on the contest between mother and son, but, crucially, no explanation is offered for her violence. One minute, Catherine Roerva Pelzer is too good to be true, not only taking the kids to Chinatown for a lesson in Chinese culture, but also, in a manic parody of idealised motherhood, decorating the house with paper lanterns and dressing up in a Chinese costume to serve a home-cooked Chinese meal. The next minute she's smashing his face against a mirror.

In its decontextualised void, the violence becomes effectively pornographic; thrilling and meaningless. This is child abuse as entertainment, relived in titillating detail, a schlock-fest of random brutality. Trevor Dolby who packaged the books brilliantly for sale in the UK, as classy-looking white-covered hardbacks doesn't disagree that the violence is deracinated, but says: 'It engages with people at a very visceral level as they read it.

That's the value of it. I caught myself waiting for the next episode of violence, half in alarm, half in gagging excitement, thinking this must be what it's like to witness a public execution. This is not a state in which I want to spend a lot of time. The Pelzer phenomenon should not, however, come as any surprise.

The novelist A. Kennedy recently expressed dismay at the vogue for confessional writing, and the need for writers to sell their books by revealing some tantalising detail about themselves, both of which, she claimed, are undermining the novel.

The popularity of memoirs as a form is part of what Jeffrey Rosen has described, in The Unwanted Gaze: The Destruction of Privacy in America, as the blurring of the distinction between private and public. It's all of a piece with the popularity of Oprah and Celebrity Sleepover , with the widespread desire to be implicated in the exposure of what was formerly private, because it feels dangerous, transgressive, exciting.

Serious writers Andrea Ashworth, Jennifer Lauck have shown no compunction in writing about their abused childhoods. Martin Amis brought his cousin Lucy into his memoir, Experience, and was attacked for using her murder by Fred and Rose West to add a frisson of sex-crime-horror.

Angela's Ashes offered up poverty as entertainment. Obviously, there are no improper subjects for literature; but brutalised childhoods written simply for shock effect are like the tabloid fascination with child sex abuse: designed at once to be erotic and grotesque, and to scandalise in a culture that has become inured to almost everything.

It was inevitable that sooner or later someone would publish a book about being a victim of paedophiles. Tony Thornton is the author of Nanin, a book originally written as therapy, which catalogues in terrible detail his abuse at the hands of his father at the age of six, and, when he was nine, by his uncle, who 'lent' him to other men. Nanin is unbearable to the point of being unreadable. His birth name is Dave Pelzer and she is currently 60 years old.

People born on December 29 fall under the zodiac sign of Capricorn. His zodiac animal is Rat. He was placed in foster care at the age of twelve and joined the U. Air Force at the age of eighteen. Continue to the next page to see Dave Pelzer net worth, popularity trend, new videos and more. Home Search Sort. Dec 29, J. Disturbing This is a story of a boy named David who endured the worst abuse I had ever read about, by the hand of the very person who gave him life, his mother.

I wanted so badly to pluck David out of the story and hide him away from this vicious woman who to me was never truly a mother, but a monster who took her anger out on a weak small child. Being able to push out a baby does not make you a mother.

It's loving and nurturing that baby, protecting that child to the bitter end. I am not a violen Disturbing This is a story of a boy named David who endured the worst abuse I had ever read about, by the hand of the very person who gave him life, his mother.

I am not a violent person, but by God I wish I could have just five minutes alone with this woman Abuse is never okay for anyone. But for a child it's horrific.

I don't understand it and I'll never accept any reason for why someone would hurt a child. Never understand. I know there is a controversy as to whether Dave is telling the truth in this book, or not.

On the other hand, some of his relatives say that he was the problem, not his mother. It is written from the viewpoint of Dave as a child, which may be why some readers find the writing to be childish. Not sure if he intended it to be that way, or if he truly is just a terrible writer. Al I know there is a controversy as to whether Dave is telling the truth in this book, or not. Almost everyone I know was abused as a child, including myself, and, yes, unspeakable things do happen that when written down make some folks say, "Oh, that couldn't have really happened!

I beg to differ. It can, and it has, to far too many children. If every word is the truth, then he's lucky to be alive, and fortunate to be sane. I'm glad I read it. Sep 08, Seri rated it did not like it Shelves: high-school. I finished it in 3 hours because it was short and to the point. Yet I must say this book is extremely poorly written. It is structured in a sense similar to a pointless shopping list: so first my mother did this to me, then she did this, I was starving, afterwards she did this and I felt so terrible.

Pelzer basically just described, no scratch that, he stated the unfortunate things that have happened to him in sequence. There are no character traits or branches of the story. Everything revolves around his mother and punishments; the book touches on nothing else.

There are also no literary devices. Normally I don't really care about that, but the lack of writing skills has, honestly, made this book quite bland.

A little synopsis of the book: Dave Pelzer was born the third of five children. His mother, one day, suddenly changed into a completely different person: from a kind and lovely mother, she transformed into one who starved and tortured Dave. What bothers me the most is the improbability of Dave's statements. These punishments Dave had gotten since four years old or so are so radical and crude that I am skeptical of what have really happened.

Of course, I have no rights to judge. Pelzer's account is just way too farfetched. These are reasons for my claims: 1. The mother treats all of her children but Dave compassionately and motherly, yet Dave is singled out.

The book has never explained why the mother suddenly turned crazy and why Dave was the hapless scapegoat. Update: That is a likely situation, so I no longer doubt it.

The father and brothers at first sympathized with Dave. Towards the middle, they just all pretended Dave was their slave, as their mother has said.

The unusualness of Dave's punishments. His mother had starved him for more than ten days, made him eat soap, forced him to inhale a mixture of ammonia and bleach, attempted to burn his arm over a gas stove or to be precise, asked him to lie down on it , smashed his head into his baby brother's diaper with feces on it , stabbed him in the stomach with a knife, strangled him, submerged his head under water, etc. And by the frequency of these punishments inflicted on Dave, it is almost impossible that Dave is still alive today, living well in good mental and physical health.

The response from Dave's family after the book was published. View all 13 comments. Apr 20, Jacqueline Wheeler rated it really liked it. Why are bad people able to have children? This is a memoir about one of the worst child abuse cases in California history. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive becau Why are bad people able to have children? I listened to this book while I was rocking my newborn nephew, and I couldn't even imagine how a mother could treat her own child like this.

There were so many parts of this book where I was disgusted, angry, sad, and confused, and I really couldn't believe that Dave's father didn't stick up for him and stop the abuse either. I have now continued onto the second book in this series, and unfortunately Dave's story hadn't gotten that much better. Feb 12, Harry Costea rated it really liked it. This book was very interesting. It showed me what really goes on in some families in this world.

It also showed me to never take anything that i have for granted because some kids have that kind of life at home.

View 1 comment. Shelves: book-club. I read A child called "It" for my fifth book report. This is a heart wrenching true story about the author of the book when he was a kid.

His name is David Pelzer and he is the main character in the book. He gets abused by his mom everyday without a break. She takes her frustrations out on him for no reason. It is one of the saddest books I have ever read. In parts it is so sad you hardly hold back the tears for the pain that this little kid is feeling.

It is even more sad because it is real. He I read A child called "It" for my fifth book report. He has two brothers in the beginning and three in the end. His brothers treat him like a door mat and I dont know how he takes it without doing something. It is a great book none the less no matter how sad it is and I highly recommend it. It has some vile parts in it so if you are going to pick it up be ready.

I will probably read this book again in the future over and over again. It is probably my favorite book. In one part David's mom is really nice to him and his brothers and in a few years she is treating his brothers the same but is beating him constantly. In one part she burns him, in another she stabs him, and in another she basically puts him in a gas chamber. She takes a bucket and fills it full of clorox and amonia and it forms this type of gas when mixed.

She locks him in the bathroom. The first times she leaves the vent on which he gets to breath some fresh air. The second time she realizes that he is using the rag he is supposed to be cleaning with to cover his mouth and so she puts it in the bucket, she also turns of the vent. Amazingly he survives. If you want to know more than read the book. This a great book I will say again and it is a really quick read if you are looking for one.

I read this book in a few hours. Once again I highly recommend this book and its sequel which I have read. It is called "The Lost Boy. View all 4 comments. Mar 11, Chantal rated it really liked it Shelves: ebook-en. What a sad story of child abuse. It makes you want to only hugg little Dave and help him out of the situation. The book was a very easy read not the subject of course.

It made me mad to think about that spineless dad, he was a grown up and should have done something. A must read for everybody!

Sep 28, Nate83 rated it really liked it. This is a book about a child his name is David. He is telling about his life when he was young. He had three brothers and mom and a dad. His dad was a local firefighter and his mom was a stay at mom kind of person.

They had a really good life they went on vacations and had picnics. He looked up to his dad and loved his mom very much. So his mom started to take out her fr This is a book about a child his name is David.

So his mom started to take out her frustrations on David and not his brothers. She would starve him for a period of time the most she did was 10 days. She stabbed him on accident, made a gas room in her bathroom, she mixed Clorox and ammonia and then lock the door. When she starved him he would steel from school students and eat the cold lunch. One time he planned out how long it took to go to school, then he stool food from the local gas station.

I love a book that stands for something. I admire people who have to suffer through such unspeakable acts, but to come out on the other side and take action to help raise awareness is very noble indeed. This book had me cringing in disgust. Is it well written? Does it need to be? This book has made me think and feel. I'd highly recommend it, just not for the squemish!! Readers also enjoyed.

Biography Memoir. True Story. About Dave Pelzer. Dave Pelzer. An author best known for his memoir of childhood abuse, A Child Called It. At the age of 12, Dave was removed from an abusive home and placed in a series of foster homes. In , he joined the Air Force and later became an author of memoirs and self-improvement books.

Tamlin Hall, whose film Holden On has won multiple awards around the country is attached to direct. Dave Pelzer is adapting the screenplay alongside Goldblum and Hall. The movie is in pre-production, with production set to begin in Spring A-List talent are already circling the project. Be sure and follow us on Facebook and Instagram for updates. Other books in the series. Dave Pelzer 4 books. Books by Dave Pelzer.

Some of the best stories take a few hundred years to tell. In he carried a torch in the Summer Olympics torch relay. Pelzer and Patsy divorced and many years later he married his second wife, Marsha, who was his editor.

His book A Child Called "It" describes from his viewpoint the severe abuse he suffered as a child. He writes how his mother was physically and emotionally abusive towards him from ages 4 to He describes how his mom starved him, forced him to drink ammonia, stabbed him in the stomach, burned his arm on a gas stove, and forced him to eat his own vomit.

He mentioned that his father was not active in resolving or stopping the conflicts between Pelzer and his alcoholic mother. He was sent to a foster family at age 12 in In the book he refers to his relatives by pseudonyms. David James Pelzer born December 29, in San Francisco, California is an American author, of several autobiographical and self-help books. The book has also been a source of controversy for Pelzer, with accusations of several events being fabricated coming from both family members and journalists.

Dave Pelzer. His wife is Marsha Pelzer m.